I know blowjobs are popular. I don't exactly fail to see why - there is something about a girl's (or boy's, if you swing that way) mouth wrapped around your hard penis that isn't found anywhere else. It's much more delicate than a vagina, and there's always teeth and lips and a tongue to get in the way (or assist, depending on how you like your blowjob and what your girl will do for you!). Given the choice, I'd rather slide into a wet vagina. But a nice blowjob makes a good precursor to sex.
So why is cunnilingus so taboo?
OK, maybe it isn't actually taboo. I know it happens a lot of the time. You do see it prevalently in porn. Hard porn often has a man licking a girl out before they get down to it, and in the world of soft porn, there's nary an episode of Bedtime Stories which goes without it... probably because it's easy to film.
But let's put this into perspective... have you ever seen a hard porn scene which doesn't start with a blowjob? When I've had sex, it's rarely actually started with a BJ. For me, the necessary precursor is cunnilingus, which doesn't seem overly necessary to some porn directors... or some boys.
I love licking a girl out. It's so different from sliding a hard penis or finger into her, and it can really give her a lot of pleasure. There's a knack to it, too... a knack that, apparently, I have. I hope the girls aren't lying but, judging by the number of orgasms I've induced with my tongue, I should think not. There have even been times where all that's happened is me giving oral sex until she orgasms, and that's it.
The best way to lick a girl out is something like this:
(i) Her legs need to be open, but comfortable. If her legs are open for too long, her hips can get tired. (Seriously, you try it. It hurts.) If she's not comfortable, she won't enjoy it. You should be there for a long time (I've done about half an hour before), and that's important!
(ii) Start by licking her inner thighs. These babies don't get enough attention. If you tease her special area, she'll want it even more. It's best to start licking around her vulva, too.
(iii) If you get some on your cheek... forget it. It's your own saliva, for God's sake.
(iv) When you reach her vagina, lick all the way from top to bottom, and back up again. It just helps, okay? Trust me.
(v) You can sometimes work your tongue in a circular motion. I've always found that, if there's room to do this, spreading it clockwise in a steady rhythm really helps build yourself (and her) up.
(vi) Don't forget that there's a lot of space inside her. I've sometimes curled my tongue up and tried to slide it in. It really doesn't work. But try and get your tongue in a bit. It works for me.
(vii) The clitoris stimulates a girl. Whatever you do, get it hard. It can be found at the top of her folds and licked or sucked. But for the love of God remember it's there.
(viii) A girl's juices generally taste salty and slightly bitter. Personally, I think it tastes great. But remember to swallow. You don't want to go making too much of a mess if she's busy doing that already.
(ix) If she orgasms, just keep licking. And gulp it down. You'll know if she orgasms because there'll be a slight 'spreading' sensation around the area of your nose and mouth. She may also scream something like "I'm coming!", too. Er, but don't count on that.
(x) You may need to breathe. So just breathe deeply a few times and then keep going. It's not a contest to show your manliness, it's giving oral sex.
(xi) Don't stop until you're sure she wants you to stop. A good indication is when she's come once and seems to want more. Then I'd see if she's OK with you making love to her.
Of course, everyone is different. So I advise you, furthermore, to discard all the guidelines above and go with the flow. This is sex, it's not maths. I don't even like maths.
But if you've never licked a girl out, I really do advise you try it. It's gorgeous. North Pole 17 with Peter North and Ariah gives a good idea of what a fantastic orgasm you can yield with the power of your mouth!
And now I'm so hot I wish I had a girl to lick. I'm in the mood to spend a night with a pair of thighs clasped around my ears...